IS IT SAFE TO USE A METAL DILDO?

Metal dildos, with their unique shimmery material and shiny look, are hard to miss. However, just because they are sex toys doesn't necessarily mean that they are safe. So, the question remains, "Is a metal dildo safe?"

The answer is, it depends on the quality of the metal. If the metal dildo you have is smooth to the touch and made from high-quality, polished steel, then it's safe to use inside your body. It's worth noting that temporary contact with metal isn't likely to bother most bodies, especially since metal and steel are used for various purposes, including surgical implants.

So, if you're holding or planning to buy a metal dildo, how do you ensure that it's safe?

Buy from a Reputable Manufacturer.

The easiest way to ensure that your steel dildo is safe for use is by purchasing it from a reputable company. High-quality materials with good quality control usually require a higher price point, but it's money well-spent for a lifetime investment. With proper care, a stainless steel dildo won't rust, degrade or discolor. You'll never need to throw it away. In fact, it may outlive you! So, instead of opting for a cheaper metal dildo from an unknown brand, save up for a reputable manufacturer's product. Njoy is a brand that has been around for a long time and is a great place to start your search. Their Njoy Fun Wand, for example, is budget-friendly and made of high-quality stainless steel.

Do a Pre-Use Check with Your Fingers

Before using any sex toy, it is essential to perform a pre-use check with your fingers. This is even more important when using glass, wood, and steel dildos. With the steel toy, you might do this automatically because it feels nice, and you might be trying to warm it up. However, pay particular attention to how your fingers feel while doing this. Check for any interruptions in the surface finish that might inflict accidental scratches during use. In almost all cases, there won't be any. Especially if this is a familiar dildo that you treat with care, it will be as pristine as ever. However, suppose the dildo is new-to-you or if you recently dropped or scratched it. In that case, it's possible that something has interrupted the smooth finish, making your metal dildo unsafe for use. This is especially true for cheaper, generic dildos from brands you've never heard of before. They might not have quality-checked their toys to ensure the coat is correct in the first place. (It's a common issue in the chastity cage manufacturer world as well. It's scary how sharp the interior of some of those low-quality cages can be!)

Store It Properly

The pre-use check with your fingers is a crucial step that you should never skip. However, if you store your metal dildo by tossing it into the junk drawer, it is likely that your dildo will fail the pre-check sooner rather than later. Metal and steel, especially the stainless type, can be extremely durable, except for scratches. The surface of a steel dildo is very sensitive to scratches, and a divet in the metallic finish of your dildo can make it abrasive on sensitive tissue and downright painful.

Stainless steel dildos may also be sensitive to large falls, although this reviewer almost broke their sink with the heft of a steel dildo and not the other way around.

Toss It at the First Sign of Degradation

A high-end stainless steel dildo, with proper care, can literally outlive you. These dildos can last multiple lifetimes when taken care of and remain in pristine condition.

Nevertheless, there is a difference between perfect use and real-life use. Perhaps, you stored your dildo in moist conditions, ran it through the dishwasher, or let it get in contact with your keys or other metal objects. You might have accidentally bought a fake metal dildo that is starting to show signs of rust.

Just as with any sex toy, the best way to remain safe is to toss your steel dildo at the first sign of degradation. If it is changing colors or fails the finger test, it is time to say goodbye and relegate it to a more suitable role outside the body, perhaps as a paperweight or even a weapon, depending on its size - for example, the njoy Eleven!

Why Use a Metal Dildo?

So, how do steel dildos compare with silicone or glass dildos? Why should you invest in one? Here are some benefits:

  • l Extreme slipperiness.
  •  lCompatibility with all lubricants.
  • Ideal for g-spot/p-spot stimulation. The rigidity and firmness of metal dildos provide the perfect combination for hitting those internal, orgasmic spots that respond best to pressure for many individuals. They are often celebrated as being g-spot and p-spot magicians! l Exceptional durability.
  • Sterilizable material. This attribute is helpful when sharing with multiple partners or when using the toy for both anal and vaginal play. l Easy to clean.
  • Non-allergenic and body-safe material.
  • Attractive design. Most stainless steel dildos look more like works of abstract art than realistic phalluses. For those who prefer non-realistic designs, the shiny, tool-like appearance of stainless steel toys is an added bonus.
  • Temperature retention. On the other hand, steel dildos also have some downsides:
  • Temperature retention. Although it is lovely when the dildo is warm, it can be unpleasant when it's freezing cold. During the cold winter months, your dildo will also retain this temperature, making it an uncomfortable experience.
  • Extreme rigidity. There is nothing soft about a metal dildo. It will feel exactly like its shape and size. If you want a bit of squishiness with your penetration, it will not be suitable for you.
  • Heavy. Metal dildos typically weigh more than other toys. They are not the best option for individuals who have weak wrist strength, and holding one for an extended period can be difficult.
  • Expensive. Steel dildos are considered a long-term "investment," and they are typically more expensive than glass or single-density silicone toys. They are, however, less expensive than materials like marble or wood. It is important to bear in mind that the price reflects durability, but it is also not budget-friendly for many individuals.

Many people prefer steel dildos because of their rigid and slippery material, which makes it easier to reach internal spots with minimal lubrication. Steel dildos are also common in BDSM play because of their kinky aesthetic, sterilizability between partners, and ability to withstand decades of rigorous use.

If you're attracted to the idea of a steel dildo but can't afford one at the moment, a glass dildo is a less durable but more affordable alternative. Glass dildos provide many of the same benefits as steel dildos, but without the long-term durability and security. However, they weigh less and are easier to handle. Personally, I prefer glass dildos because of their lighter weight, although they do not possess the same weight, durability, or visual appeal as stainless steel toys.

Are Steel Dildos Good for Anal?

Yes and no! It depends on how you use them.

Steel dildos, as the name suggests, are made of steel. If you've held a piece of steel before, you know how unyielding steel can be – it is just as rigid inside as it is outside the body. A "good, hard pounding" can potentially lead to internal and external bruising, mainly if you are not careful. This is even more likely if you are using a steel dildo for anal on someone else or if you are distracted. You might even bump into the S-curve of the butt unintentionally!

However, this does not imply that you have to go pounding with a steel dildo for anal. Start things off slow and gradually increase intensity over time. Steel dildos may need to be kept at a slow and gentle pace, and this is perfectly fine. The wonder of steel dildos lies in their weight and unchanging curves. The speed of your thrusting will not affect any of the benefits that steel offers.

Steel dildos for anal also have another fantastic advantage: superb cleaning. Since steel is less porous than silicone, it is less likely to develop the infamous "butt smell" that plugs can occasionally acquire. Furthermore, the non-porous nature of steel allows for boiling, bleaching, or soaking for complete sterilization, so the residual scent can be eliminated promptly.

Therefore, as long as your steel dildo (or steel butt plug) has a flared base, and you are willing to start cautiously, there is no reason why you can't use your steel dildo for anal play.

I Have a Nickel Allergy. Can I Use Steel Dildos?

The answer is maybe.

Some stainless steel formulas contain nickel. Although the nickel in the toy does not necessarily contact the skin during use, if you have a life-threatening reaction to nickel, you might want to avoid steel toys, just in case.

However, I have personally never experienced any adverse effects from any of my steel toys – including steel plugs worn for hours on end. Nonetheless, if you have a history of nickel sensitivity, you may want to approach with caution.

What is a Dildo Hooked to a Metal Bar?

Dildo Hooked to a Metal Bar

You might be curious about a dildo attached to a metal bar, which is known as a pillory. These devices are excellent for spreading the legs of your partner and providing erotic pleasure simultaneously. The traditional pillory looks different, but for kinky people, the idea of a "pillory" has evolved to include dildos.

However, balance must be considered! A pillory can be precarious, particularly with all of the stimulating sensations, and your partner could lose balance, which is hazardous. It is recommended that you begin your metal dildo pillory exploration with an affordable, at-home option. If this is the case for you, ensure that your partner is positioned against a wall for additional support and to reduce the risk of falling. However, always be prepared for any eventuality!